Jealousy and Cheating
Jealousy is one of the least attractive traits a man can have. It doesn’t matter how justified it is – it will still sink your ship every time. I remember one girl who was sleeping with a friend, they met on some Adult Social Network, and even though she had a boyfriend. When I’d hang out with her, she would complain about how her boyfriend was always so jealous of other guys.
Read that again – she’s complaining that her boyfriend suspected something that was absolutely true! He had every right to be jealous. The only solution to the jealousy problem is to show no jealousy whatsoever. It doesn’t matter if she’s flirting with every guy she knows and whispering sweet nothings in their ears. You need to act as if it couldn’t concern you less.
The fact is that if she wants to flirt with other guys – or do more than just flirt – there is no way you’re going to stop her. If she’s reasonably attractive then she has a line of guys just waiting for her attention. If she’s unreasonably hot, then you can bet that she has armies of men fawning over her. Your petty jealousy will serve as no deterrent to her doing whatever she pleases.
How to Deal with Slutty Girls
It’s a very common occurrence for a girl to be faithful to her boyfriend, but then he gets jealous and possessive, imagining that she’s sleeping around. He expresses his jealousy, which then leads her to think “If he thinks I’m sleeping with other people, I may as well just do it.” This sounds crazy, but I’ve heard girls say that VERBATIM. It’s important to give a girl all the freedom she wants. Show her that you trust her, and she will want to earn your trust. You probably have female friends that you’re not sleeping with, so extend her the same courtesy. If she wants to go out with her guy friends, then don’t protest.
I actually encourage girls to do things like this because I think it ultimately makes them happier in the relationship. After training yourself not to be jealous for a while, you will actually not feel jealous anymore, and since you are here to meet girls online, you need to have more control on your feelings, since you have a great chance to meet hot girls that are more open about their relationships. Being 100% jealousy free makes you that much more appealing to girls and it makes your relationship less stressful.
One last word of advice – if she’s cheated before, she’ll do it again. Maybe not with you, but be prepared for the possibility, and accept it up front, that’s part of the deal of hooking up with girls from social sex sites. If she’s faithful, then consider yourself lucky.